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The book does not seem well-organized and the author goes off on long, uninteresting tangents. But repressing your anger doesn’t make it go away.
We really like this piece uonestidad by one of our trainers, Law Turleyand we think you will too: And this definitely sounds a lot easier than it is. This book is brash, confident, strong, results-oriented, opinionated, simple, and straightforward to the point of over-simplifying.
That is wonderful for a little while, but when you sober up the moralist within works overtime.
Stress is not a characteristic of life or times, but of people. Not inaccurate in every respect but shallow and annoyingly unable to see the other side i. If you don’t resonate with it as strongly at first don’t worry, you’ll still discover a very fresh view of the world and a few valuable lessons.
He has been a private therapist for couples, groups and individuals for the last 25 years.
Anything less than full disclosure is withholding of the kind that creates alienation. Radical Honesty then becomes a stringent way to banish certainty, by showcasing your own limited experiences in a cathartic stream of consciousness. And since having things to hide keeps you in your racing mind and keeps it racing, you have radicxl reveal what you have hidden. As always, the reader should just extract the personally valuable stuff out of his collection radicak techniques and his overall message, and simply ignore the rest.
Then you admit that you are lost and faking it most of the time these days as well, not just in the far-removed past. Radical honesty is not about becoming a cocky blunt cunt that Loved it, even though the book is not perfect. We are unable to offer combined shipping for multiple items purchased. Part of radical honesty is being able to view things rationally. Clearly your spouse is not at fault and is being blamed. There is no such thing as “none of your business” in an intimate relationship This is simply a matter of an adult human being taking good care of himself or herself.
Not always in that order, though I put others last on purpose, because we never know others as well as ourselves, and our help is often unwelcome or gets in the way.
Lying often comes naturally, especially white lies, so it’s easy to be dishonest without realizing it. I resolved to be as open as I could about myself and what I was doing, at all times and with all people.
Mar 01, Deepak Chaudhary added it. Realize that it’s selfish to withhold from others even if it’s “not to hurt their feelings”. In a situation, identify what you’re feeling and any needs that result from that feeling. Firstly, this was because little is inherently shameful.
You have probably told many little lies and half-truths throughout your life. Aug 06, Margot rated it it was amazing Shelves: Even in the guest-written introduction to the second edition, Marilyn Ferguson writes that she doesn’t condone Blanton’s dirty language and doesn’t agree with much of what he says.
I will learn to be honestkdad and radically honest, I will become a liberated sexual being, I will read lots of books and become very intelligent, I will travel the world and learn new things and tell people they are perfect. Being a jerk and speaking your anger immediately and in all situations is not always the answer, in my opinion.
Jacobs devotes a chapter in the book The Guinea Pig Diaries to his attempts to live according to the precepts of Radical Honesty. Reads like a madman’s manifesto but there is a lot to take from it. I am a lawyer, and I like my job.
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I don’t understand the mechanism behind this, but perhaps from the age of eight onwards I have felt cramped. The author’s main point was that it is psychologically more healthy to express to a person how that person is making you feel directly to the person’s face at the time you are feeling it.
I think the cultural ideas we have about what it means to lead a good life in the West are just totally fucked up. It does, however, have some similarities to A New Earth in that it asks you to be completely aware, especially of how certain emotions make you feel physically which has been very powerful for me. Prior to that, nurturing relationships between or among adults are not possible. Action that is clearly intentional occurs, but results from consciousness of circumstance, of principles, and of consciousness itself.
As one example of what I do as a lawyer for a public health agency, Radicao am trying to help my client end the AIDS epidemic. For example, you may find yourself lying to your doctor about your habits or to your boss about your work ethic. I was pleasantly surprised to find out the book had a little more substance than the way the “movement” is generally portrayed.
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The big idea of the book is that happiness can be achieved through cultivating honesty regardless of how hard or easy the situation is. The trouble is, people are generally willing to take care of almost anyone or anything else BUT themselves Growing up is not just a brwd accumulation of new learning: Instead, it’s mindfulness at it’s finest.
My greater interest in concealment, from onward, lay partly in realizing that we might want to confess something we feel guilty about mainly to relieve ourselves of the burden of carrying a secret or being unforgiven. I have to agree with them honnestidad I don’t think I’ll be doing that anytime soon. This is an intentionally unsophisticated book.
We think we lie in order to ‘save’ other people, but in reality, we lie in order to save our false and constructed selves. Do not banton, “That looks awful on you. Not always in that order, though I put others last on purpose, because we never know others as well as ourselves, and our help is often unwelcome or gets This review is about keeping secrets, and whether it is necessary or harmful.
If you just say the mean things yet keep secret the adolescent assumptions behind that feeling, you’re only doing half the job, and being dishonest. I have been saying to my friends, “I feel really nervous right now, because sometimes I have thoughts that other people are judging me. Just a moment while we sign you in to your Goodreads account.